2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

I would die for this woman. This book was wonderful, informative, made me weep, and made me laugh out loud.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

Always a fan of Jen - read this as a mom, fan and player in the OB field. Had hubby listen to the last chapter so he realizes as an EMT he also makes a difference in the OB world. He cried, I cried, it was amazing.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

From a not-ever-birthing person myself, this was a masterclass in knowledge to support loved ones that will.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

This book is incredible and even a beyond worthwhile read for moms who have done this before. I was so fortunate to be able to read this early as Baby came March 5. I was speed reading this while labouring in hospital. Even though this was my third baby and I thought I knew the drill, Jen was able to prepare me for techniques that were new to me this time around in chapter 9 delivery decisions. My first 2 babies were relatively quick labours, but this one was longer and led to augmentation of labour since my waters had broken and my blood pressure was high. There was so much more monitoring too and the toco (external contraction monitor) wasn’t picking up my contractions very well. I got passed onto a higher risk OB who I could tell was very good at his job, but was really horrible with bedside manner and explaining options to his patients. I felt like he barked a bunch of options/orders at me with a threaten of a c section. It was tough in that moment to ask questions and turn down certain options. I am so thankful I had literally just read how my labour was about to play out in Jens book to help me make a more informed decision. I turned down the epidural again because I felt that I did not need it and temporarily turned down the fetal scalp monitor as we were having issues monitoring my contractions and not babies heart rate, but the doctor definitely downplayed the FSE. Fortunately the IUPC monitor and the amnio infusion did the trick. Babies heart rate was more cooperative and she was born an hour after in a couple pushes. Any mom who gets Jen as their labour and delivery nurse has won the lottery! This book allows so many more of us to have Jen in the room with us.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

Absolutely incredible! Was very lucky it came out right before I had my baby this week. Jen is not only hilarious, but knowledgeable and passionate in her writing of her experiences and manages to share information without it feeling overwhelming. A 10/10 read for any birth giver!

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

Get the audiobook version! Hearing the stories in Jen’s voice is like watching one of her TikTok videos. I genuinely enjoyed it. Plus there are I think eight extra stories in the audiobook version that are not in the regular book or e-book. I have not ever been pregnant and will never be pregnant because I had to have a hysterectomy. But I have always loved everything in regards to pregnancy and birth. My point in explaining why I’ve never been pregnant is because I think that anyone that loves Jen Hamilton or anyone that loves anyone that has a vagina could learn so very much from this book. I learned a lot. I laughed so much. I cried too. I think that this book will be an amazing and helpful tool for anyone planning to become pregnant or is currently pregnant. Honestly, if I could give the book 10, stars I would.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

This book encapsulates education, knowledge, humor, gentleness, and guidance. I’m expecting my third child and have insisted my husband read this too and I think I need the hard copy. Really considering a bonus copy for my delivery nurse as well. As a nurse (not in this field), the love and compassion that is given to each patient and the ability to inform while still respecting wishes is a gift. So much self reflection was able to happen and I believe I am able to be a better practitioner as a result of this book! I also think I may be able to have the birth experience I’ve dreamed of this time around as a result of the education I’ve received. I hope I have a Jen Hamilton that assists on my sweet baby’s birthday party.

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

Must read. Jen is a wonderful human. I think she healed me a little with the pregnancy loss chapter<3

2026-05-16T00:00:00.000Z

No, I'm not pregnant. I just love Jen and everything about this. This book is smart. It's compassionate. Jen's quirkiness brings levity to some intense content. Women & all people deserve these conversations and information before going through a pregnancy and labor.