Love By Design
2026-04-27T13:18:08.543Z
"We often assume what love is based on past conditioning and what society tells us relationships should look like.
But love is more than that.
Before I explored Joan’s New Love Languages report, I believed love worked in a certain way. Discovering my own love codes shifted that completely. It gave me a new perspective and helped me understand myself in a way I hadn’t seen before.
One of the biggest shifts was in how I see my relationship with my husband. We share two of the same love gates, and that alone brought a deeper level of understanding and connection between us.
Gate 40, in particular, was a wake-up call. I used to interpret it as loyalty through work. I would say things like “this is why I’m so loyal when I work for others.”
But the truth runs deeper.
It showed me a pattern of believing that love has to be earned through sacrifice. And when that effort wasn’t reciprocated, it left me feeling bitter.
Seeing this clearly changed everything.
With Joan’s insight and guidance, I now experience love with more awareness, clarity, and honesty. It’s not just about how we give or receive love. It’s about recognising what’s true for you.
If you haven’t explored Joan’s New Love Languages report yet, I highly recommend it. Read it with an open mind. Notice what resonates. Question what doesn’t.
There’s something powerful in seeing yourself clearly."